This weekend I had an incredible lesson in following your dreams and the tuggings of your heart. The things that will never leave you no matter how much time goes by — because God put them there! Lessons in Faith!
Now this doesn’t mean take it for granted and ‘one day’ do something about it. What it means is that if the calling isn’t going away, instead of running in fear of it, follow your heart and take the NEXT STEP. That’s all you’re responsible for! God will do the rest and lead you on your step after that.
So in my case, the calling had always been to pursue something in the entertainment industry, either with singing or modeling, and two different times when I was younger I had been in contact with modeling agencies. But for various reasons it wasn’t the right timing.
As I grew, I was always comfortable performing or being on stage, singing, dancing, speaking etc. Despite some nerves here and there, it always felt very natural and I was good at it!
Enter adulthood: Pursuing my education to the doctorate level, opening my own businesses and speaking locally. I even hosted my own Health&Hope women’s 1-day event.
But the call to the bigger stage and greater influence has always been beneath it all.
Finally, a month or two ago, I could resist the urge no longer. I knew that I had to ‘scratch the itch’ or it would never be satisfied. I looked into Christian singing auditions and came upon a local audition in Pasadena (about 2 hours north of San Diego) for Actors, Models and Talent for Christ (AMTC). This was it!! This was my opportunity to at least follow that tug, no matter the outcome. I signed up to audition and the picture below was taken this past Saturday.
What was so interesting about the whole experience, was that the second I got past my ‘jitters’ and nervousness and pushed the CONFIRM button to secure my spot online, I was filled with instant peace. I literally had no nervousness or anxiety leading up to, or on the day of the event!!
I knew God was in control at this point, and I just had to be obedient. And because I was following what I felt was a call from Him, not driven by selfish desires or greed or pride, I felt completely at ease ever since.
So the day of the audition comes, and you can see I’m #537 that day, and auditioned in front of at least 500 people in my grouping, and I’m estimating there were at least 2000 people auditioning that day.
As it turns out, I was FIRST in my grouping of people to audition, and THEN the nerves set in that I had a hard time controlling. That being said, they had me read a part (which I wasn’t prepared to do any ‘acting’) and then sing what I had prepared. By the time I went to sing, I couldn’t control my nervous system and wasn’t able to be as strong in my vocal control as I had practiced, so I wasn’t proud of the performance. ‘Oh well!’ I thought., ‘At least I did it and that’s all that matters.’
I was told you would either receive a call-back the following day between 9am-3pm or a ‘thanks but no thanks’ email.
The day goes by and my husband and I enjoyed a beautiful day by the ocean with friends. I tried not to be anxious as I awaited the call or the email. Finally at around 1pm we decided to start driving home toward San Diego. I’m feeling at ease that I hadn’t received a call because I knew it didn’t go as well as I had wanted.
‘No harm done. Maybe I was to do this just to encourage others to follow their dreams, regardless of the outcome. If that’s the case, it was still worth it.’
Then at 2:18pm I got the call!! They welcomed me back to be in 3 different categories: acting, singing and modeling. I have until the end of February to make my decision if I want to move forward, but the moral of the story is, that if God is in it, it doesn’t matter how you ‘perform.’ God’s favor will be upon you beyond your understanding or comprehension.
I hope this encourages and inspires you. You will have the PEACE in your heart that you desire, when you finally say YES to God’s call. Let Him be in control, as He is so much bigger and more capable to fulfill your dreams than you ever can be on your own. 🙂
Your sister in Christ,
~Dr. Melody
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You are SO MUCH MORE than a number on a scale. It’s time to take an integrative approach.
One of the biggest reasons I see women fail in their weight loss or health efforts is by being too narrow minded in their approach. When you focus on losing weight or trying to be healthier and deal with nutrition and exercise alone, it yields only temporary results.
Understanding that to really CHANGE such a large part of ourselves must be dealt with an integrative approach. Being willing to make changes not only in the physical body, but more importantly in your mind, your thoughts, your emotions and your relationship with God.
“Jesus answered, “For it is written: ‘Man does not live by bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.” Matthew 4:4
If we begin examining ‘every word’ of God and use that as our compass for righteous and healthy living and allow it to permeate every part of our being, there is NO WAY we can exclude or single-out our health and physical body as just “one area” to make a change.
You must be using a whole mind + body approach for ultimate success.
I encourage you today to do some self-examination. Have you been treating your health or weight loss as a separate entity, separate from all the other areas of your life? Do you see how this is a flawed approach and will only warrant short term or partial results?
>> I encourage you to pray and journal and ask God how you can begin making changes not just in your physical body, but emotional, spiritual, mental and relational as well. For we are an amazingly integrated creation which deserves an equally integrative approach to health.
Your sister in Christ,
~Dr. Melody
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Have you ever felt like that? When you know God is at work and BIG things are happening but you feel even CRAZIER than normal?!
That’s where I’ve been lately. So many things changing. God working in me and on me in so many ways: Business. Identity. Purpose. Health. Self Esteem. Trust. Reliance. Faith. Whew!
When so much is changing all at once, you’re bound to feel more frazzled. In my case I’ve been implementing so many new habits, reading new books, studying the Bible more, getting ongoing coaching for business and personal development and opening myself up to His guidance and what he really wants from my life, what direction He wants me to go, it can feel like your brain is in a jumble and your heart is unsettled.
But it’s all part of the process.
THIS is truly when faith and trust come in. When it’s time to take it from concept to action.
But we can always rely on God’s promises. For God does not make a promise He does not keep. No matter who you are, what your past is or what you’re going through, God is faithful. The fullest embodiment of the word that no human could ever match (besides Jesus of course.) 😉
“TRUST in the Lord with ALL of your heart. Lean NOT on your own understanding. In ALL your ways, acknowledge Him, and He WILL direct your path.” Proverbs 3:5-6
I just finished reading an incredible little book that I highly recommend all about digging into the timeless wisdom of King Solomon and the book of Proverbs. You can check it out here.
It’s called The Richest Man Who Ever Lived: King Solomon’s Secrets to Success, Wealth, and Happiness. by Steven K. Scott. It has fully spurred me on into committing to an in-depth study of Proverbs, deeper than he goes in the book. But the book is definitely the “highlights.” You can snag it on Amazon here if you like (affiliate link).
In the coming weeks and months you will begin to see the fruit of the seeds God is planting inside me. And of course the goal to be sharing and inspiring you and others by how and where He leads me. I will keep you updated for sure!
Where has God been working in your life? Where are you allowing Him to come in and literally change you from the inside-out? It’s not always easy, but the reward is always guaranteed.
I’d love to hear more and love to pray for you and as the process unfolds.
After all, we’re all on this crazy journey of life together! <3
Your sister in Christ,
~Dr. Melody
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